Sunday, November 21, 2004


ah darling! hmm, looking your "i don't know"s .... it sure seems you really don't know and you don't want to be asked or you don't want to talk about it. trust me, i've been there alot of times this year, so i know how you feel. hug. just surround yourself with good books (yes nicholas sparks!), good friends, good tv shows, family! ... and do do talk about it as and when you allow yourself to be more clear ... remb i'm always there for you alright (: here's something that i thought you should read: Life I believe that everything in life is a lesson. There is an opportunity to learn from everything. And when you're faced with a hard situation, think about what you can learn from it and how you can benefit from it. Nothing should be totally bad, that's not the way it is supposed to be. No one's life is perfect and no one turns out exactly the way they wanted or expected but life shouldn't be a burden or something that you dread. You're only young once, so you should enjoy it, and you shouldn't be in such a hurry to grow up. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger and everything that you do and all the decisions that you make, the big ones and small ones, are all important. There is such a thing as destiny and fate but it can only take you so far. You have to help yourself along the way. In life, the end product is certainly important but it's how you got there that matters the most. No one wants to look back on their life and regret half of the things that they did. You're going to have to choose between a lot of things in your life. Sometimes, it will be an easy choice, sometimes, it will be hard. But remember that you're not alone and everyone goes through what you're going through. You'll laugh and you'll cry; you'll get your heart broken at least once, and you'll probably break someone else's heart at least once. Good things will happen to you and bad things will happen to you, but no matter what, don't let anything or anyone control or drastically change your life. Because it's your life, you're the one who���s going to have to live it. And, sometimes, you really can't listen to what anybody else says, you just have to listen inside and follow your heart. i hope the last line especially speaks to you (: as i told you many times over, you're such a gem, don't let stuff get into you .... we need people like you to keep us going (: and yes, God's on your side! make your plans big young lady! hugs and love, your darling p.s. i'm still staring at our neoprint .. haha, we look oh so gorgeous lah! (:

|soph`x|
11/21/2004 08:00:00 PM